Chance or Choice?

So that is what happens when people are stuck up in a situation where in you have to choose between your heart or your mind, between the one who would love to be with you in public or the one who is embarrass to hang out with you when people you know might see you.

There's a big difference between being loved or being used. There's a big difference between holding your hands in public or just holding your hand after you guys make out or in the cab. There's a big difference when you can go out together with each other friends or you are not being introduced to his friends.

Yes, maybe the other party had his side, his own version of his story, his own explanation of his feelings. But surely, you is what important to you. So with your unreliable instinct, you've just opened up your door with the other guy whom you choose before even knowing the full version of what is really happening. You choose to miss that chance.

This just like when a girl is with a boy and then the boy is cold with her and then she found someone who would appreciate her the most and then dumped her boyfriend. Girl is lonely, wants company. Other boy enters the scene, perfect enough to be the company. Missing story: boyfriend who probably had his own problems but is not able to speak up for he don't have a chance.

Basically, if this shit is on movie, it would be blockbuster and the people would say at the premiere "I would definitely watch it again! I can't stop crying." And then the viewers would talk and blame the boyfrtiend for not having his balls to explain what the real score is.

What kind of ending do we have here? Oh, a depressing one. Girl not really happy with the other boy. Boyfriend not happy because he can't do anything. Choice over Chance. Or maybe if the boyfriend acts on the problem, then no one will be in this situation, That makes it Chance over Choice.

So what do we do? I say, we blog about it since it is really hard when you are in that situation and I thank God that I am not. And with these kind of problems couples experience when they're in a relationship, I am really glad that I'm single.