Journalism Review: Strong Press; Weak Democracy

Picturing our country, good politicians, people in power being humble, non corrupt president, no issue among other countries, no case of poverty, no individual suffering from hunger, no value added tax and no increasing of prices. It may look perfect but what can be more perfect and beautiful seeing our country this way, people have the freedom to speak and share their thoughts to democracy, there is no one prohibiting them to reveal what they want to reveal, no threats, no anger, no killing, free press is recognized and democracy reigns. Now, that’s perfect. But this perfect scenario is undeniably far from reality. What we have now is this, corrupt president, not so reliable government officials, constantly increasing of prices, poverty is noticeable, food suffrage, mass voices can’t be heard by the people in power, press receiving death threats, strong press being killed and democracy being weak.

In the book, “Democracy in Development Countries: Asia” (1989), Diamond, Linz and Lipset defined democracy as a system of government that meets three conditions: meaningful and extensive competition among individuals and groups for all effective governmental positions at regular intervals and without the use of force; a high level of political participation; and the freedom necessary to assure the integrity of political competition. The main point of what Diamond, Linz and Lipset has defined Democracy is that democracy is a need to understand more the government and for the citizen to learn how to practice their own freedom.

Strong democracy, every countries aim. Weak press is more acceptable by many. But isn’t it ironic that in our country, the Philippines, we have that media people or press that are strong and our should-have-to-be-strong democracy has come the other way around; we are experiencing our democracy the unacceptable way, it being weak. As regards to this argument, the history of media times can prove how the press remains strong after what the people, government and politics have brought to them. One good example of this is the killing and murdering of some reporters/broadcasters that time. Not only can we observe the media being strong in past time but also recently. Though this has been already a topic such a long time ago, this conflict remains incurable.

Reality speaks the most and history says it all. As regards with the history, there are many proofs that make the fact Strong Press; Weak democracy strong and true. This paper aims to show how we can move on from the bitter-full reality and what can we do about it. In action with this, this paper reveals the different sides of random people from random sources and random happenings.

Before and even today we have experienced our democracy being weak. According to David (1998) & Osias (1934), there have been many instances that the usually vocal Catholic Church has kept silent. It just partially means that Filipinos are indeed lacking the democracy that is actually theirs. Because of our weak democracy, it came to the point that being weak is not applicable to us, Filipinos because we have strong heroes, there is Mabini, Rizal, Bonifacio and many more. They fight for our freedom, they fight for our rights while us, simple democracy, and we cannot even give to ourselves. With this realization, I can say that Filipinos are afraid. Afraid of the consequences what they’re action might bring to them. To achieve a better country, we must move on and strive hard for the best. We cannot just wait and stare until she gives back our democracy, we should do some action, we must fight for our rights, fight for our freedom. We must reveal that heroism in each of us.

Stated from the book Continuity of Freedom,
“Their quality of leadership – service to others- has changed the lives of many, and I believe it is this same leadership that will lift all Asia in the new century that is approaching.”

This part of the stated book tackles about the leadership and quiet heroism. How our heroes lead us to a better life by protecting us in the form of their quiet heroism and leadership. But, unfortunately, the leadership in them is not found in many Filipinos in the present century. The leadership that they acquire has not been passed to the Filipinos today for some reason I don’t know. And because of this, I think that, that heroism, that quality of leadership and service to others that has effectively changed the lives of many is already gone. They are already gone when in fact it is all that we need for the new century that is fast approaching. Without these, can we, Filipinos imagine how can we live in the next years and can what blessing in our country can the next generation point out? There’s none. Absolutely none. Heroism and Leadership are not in our hands anymore. But no one will give it back to us so we have to strive hard, take so many steps forward, do all what we have to do and get it back. We’ll bring it back to our country for the upcoming years, for the upcoming generations.

In the Philippines, there are many instances that can prove the fact that we are definitely suffering from lack of democracy. One example is that of during the reign of President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo, when the “Hello, Garci” tape has been revealed. She admits that she has something to do with this but even though her citizens impeach and do many rally’s there still no effect because the mass has no voice in the eyes of the powerful people, what they heard, comes in one ear and through the other. Where is the democracy in that case? Clearly, we don’t have it; they have it, the powerful people have it and they won’t give it to us unless we, the mass, as one, fight. And by as one, I mean all, not some. Because if the Philippines is against that little girl, then we have a better chance to win but if that little girl can pay you, and you, weak creature who also want to have your democracy, is getting that money that little girl gives you, then my pity is on you.(Celdran, 2005)

“We may not win a Magsaysay Award ourselves, but every good we do by striving to help our communities will also be a sterling achievement in its own way.” --Fidel V. Ramos, Continuity of Freedom, 1998

Having the leadership back, heroism is well is not as easy as ABC or as simple as 123. Getting it requires a long road process and for that process to succeed eventually there is that someone who have to lead, someone who has to start that changing act. Even a simple vendor, if s/he is willing to then a/he will and s/he can. Starting the act, even though you might think that why can’t other people do it for you? Why do you have to wait when you are already thinking of it today? Why don’t you do it today rather than waste your time waiting for that someone to make the move when you, yourselves has already think of that thought earlier. As a concern citizen, you must voice out what you are thinking and processed what you are visualizing, you must not be afraid that others might not follow you, that others might curse you or laugh at you. If you think you are right and what you will do is for the good and for good of others, then do what you have to do. Don’t let something or anything affects you, don’t let any hindrances get into your way. Don’t wait for any reward before you start, don’t wait for the country to suffer more before making any actions. Doing the good for all is an achievement, a very bright one, a one time big time achievement.

“Nearly 60 Filipino journalists have been killed in the line of duty since 1986, by any measure a high casualty count. The Philippines is now next to Iraq as the most dangerous country in the world for journalists. The breakdown of law and order is partly responsible, allowing the killers of media people to get away with their crime. Unsurprisingly, such impunity only encourages further attacks.”-(Coronel, 2006)

Aside from the countries weak democracy, strong press and media is also an undying issue. This became an issue when in the history of media most especially in the history of journalism; we are not illiterate of the fact that many media people such as broadcasters, writers, reporters and journalists are being kidnapped or worst, murdered. They are being killed because some people, the issues, exposes, unflattering information or even criticisms that the writers write, reporters report, are in power and they don’t want the news that has been published or aired. Because of this, they will do anything to make that reporter keep quiet and if the reporter is not receiving any payment for him/her to get back his/her words, the people in power have no choice but to kill the media person. This fact has also been strengthened by Fr. Antonio PiƱon Tiana, OP (1996) in his book, entitled, The Freedom of the Press.

One perfect example of this is what happened in early 2009 to Cess Drilon of ABS-CBN News Broadcast Team. She had been kidnapped because the group that has been the topic of her expose didn’t like the information that Cess has informed the mass. Fortunately, the group has not hurt Drilon and they have released her after some time. In Drilon’s case, she is lucky not to be killed by the group compared to Pagadian City’s, Olimpio Jalapit. Jalapit is one of the examples that can support the fact that our country lacks protection for the journalists and the press. Jalapit, a journalist was gunned down in the year 2002. Before this, He had experienced receiving death threats and had been warned to tone down his reportage apparently because He had stepped on the foot of powerful people. (David, 2006)

In spite of this dilemma, instead of being afraid and write all positive things about these powerful people, journalists remain strong and fierce. Journalists need no to be helpless in the face of such attacks. They still do their work even though their lives are near the cliff of death, they remain to bring the news to the world, they still do their work fairly and not only for the sake of the powerful peoples. The press has not thought twice to play their role as the fourth estate, to deliver and interpret news to ordinary people, even though there are many threats. I believe that this is the press’ preparation for the future, towards the better press. This action just justifies what is stated in the book, The Press in Modern Society by Hornby (1965).

According to Santos J. (2007) & Avecilla V. (2007), Philippine Media in general hardly contribute to grassroots participation and democratic culture. When in fact According to Ramos, F. (1998), the press will play a big role on the building of a better world in the 21st century, This can therefore prove that the media or press is a big star on the next generation scenes. The press can help to make our world a better one in the next centuries because of the fact that, the press are always exposed to the problems of our country, they always see what’s wrong and what are we lacking. Before ordinary people can say that “this issue is bad” or the likes, the press has already think of a solution to that because they are the one who transmits the message from the powerful people to the ordinary people. Although, the press is not making big actions in improving our country in spite of the problems, surely, every single soul in the press community is helping to improve the country in their own little ways. And if we merge all the help or thoughts together, no wonder we have to prepare for the upcoming better world.

In preparation to our upcoming better world, the press also needs to change, change for a better press. The press, one of the people capable in changing our country, also needs solutions on how they, themselves can improve more. The press of this country, according to Mendez: “The Press of this country must be temperate, rather than wild; uplifting, rather than degrading. It must sweep public opinion not enlightened thought. Unless the Press does this, the measure of black deeds in the country will forever run high.”

“Government officials who feel they will be held accountable by challenges from an honest experienced reporter will be cautious in the claims they make and the “reforms” they push. However, those officials who feel they are dealing with reporters who can be misled or hand fed will engage in the maximum in oversimplifications and deceptions that they can use without being held up to ridicule.”—Mollenhoff, 1981

The latter statement also reveals how the powerful people and most of them are government officials use their power in a not so good way. They abuse those reporters that are weak and they know that will get their money. And at the same time, they target those reporters whom they know are experienced and wise enough to not accept their proposals, if ever there is.

These happenings and experience make the reporters much stronger and more respectable and at the same time, making us, ordinary people, have faith in them and the news that they delivered.

One example given example to support the fact that the press is strong and we have weak democracy is the airing a certain show which encourages Filipino people to speak up at to fight for their freedom, democracy or whatever they’re fighting for, “Hoy! Gising!” a show aired in the television mainly by ABS-CBN in the year 1992. The show as said earlier is aired by the press and media people to encourage the mass to fight for their rights and wake up from the nightmare that the country is experiencing. Also, this show aims to bring back the democracy to the Filipinos as how they deserve for it. This is a great example on how the strong press is helping the Filipinos to get back what they deserve, a strong democracy, not the weak one. (Coronel, 1996)

Press being strong does not always focus on targeting the government, politicians and people upholding power. An example of the media being strong in some other ways is the launching of the new tabloid, Abante, born in the post-edsa publishing bloom. The tabloid was a big hit and made a name for by its own and carved its own spot in the history of tabloid journalism. The said tabloid has produce many memorable issue that settled on the mind of the readers like the tabloid had their headlines such as “Walong kandidato sa Senado Bakla (Eight Senatorial Candidates are Gay).” Because of this, the mass/ordinary people has recognized the tabloid and the press behind it as a strong one and are not afraid of what other citizen who will be able to real the selection might say. (Alibutud, 1995)

As many people know, tabloid journalism has a not so good aftermath to the ordinary people. They see tabloid news papers as trash and it shows only for garbage news, celebrity issues and some nude photos but regardless of this fact, tabloid papers are still newspapers. And newspapers bring you news to inform you. Ordinary people kept criticizing what is in the tabloid paper, they laugh, they react and whatever yet, how can you laugh, criticize, react if you did not buy it? So, bottom line is, whatever you say bad about these newspapers, the fact that it informs you what you have to know or you want to know. And you, ordinary people, trust them. You trust the newspapers, trusting the people behind the newspapers and giving them trust much more encourage them to give you the news you deserve, reliable and clean news. (David, 1997)

Being strong does not always mean that it is in a positive way. Sometimes the press being strong affects the country negatively. I can say this because of what I have observed before and still today. In spite of the fact that there are strong journalists who are not accepting money to write good and positive things about a certain person, usually powerful or one in the government, there are also ‘strong’ journalists who are accepting good amount for them to write a good article to clean the name of an individual or group. These journalists are strong in a way that they are not afraid to get caught or to be criticized by their co-journalists. They are strong in a very not so good way. They reveal their professionalism in writing by being un-professional in the act of receiving payments from those people in power.

When it's Mr. and Mr. Jones.

In the present or even before, Same Sex Gender relationship has already been an issue. Man to Man/Women to Women relationships, lesbianism and Same Sex Marriage has already been argued and talked about. But compared to other issues, Same Sex Marriage, a term used to describe a legally or socially recognized marriage between two persons of the same biological sex or social gender, has become a one time big time argument. This has become a big controversy in some countries including the Philippines. This has been a topic in the Philippines because presently, the population of gay, bisexuals or whatever others call it is continuously increasing. Although this kind of marriage has already been approved in some countries, it is still not accepted and it remains a wide topic in the Philippines. With the issue “Same Sex Marriage,” ordinary people are always fond of asking questions and wondering about some how’s and why’s. Some of these hows and whys are the following: Why do these people can’t control their own feelings and just love other persons their opposite gender? How will the couple be if ever they get married? How will the adopted child cope with the environment wherein s/he had both men or both women as parents? Is their (gay/lesbian) relationship or love as strong like the love of a couple who has a man and a woman in a relationship? Is what they call love for real? Can we consider their love as true love which is needed before getting married? These questions are just some of the many questions that are bothering ordinary people.

Ordinary people especially Filipinos/Filipinas can’t help not to care about this topic, the marriage of two people with the same gender. These people have their own reactions, ideas or thoughts about this issue. Either they are for Same Sex Marriage or against Same Sex Marriage. Focusing on the side of the ‘for’ Same Sex Marriage position, this paper talks about some pros and cons of Same Sex Marriage.

These are some arguments that can support the ‘for’ Same Sex Marriage position. First, “Marriage is a union between two people who love each other.” There is really nothing stronger than love. Who says that love can only be felt between women to men or men to women only? Who can prohibit love anyway? If one person truly loves another person his/her own gender, can other people stop them for getting their relationship to a higher level? The ceremony of marriage is done between two people who love each other. Take note, two persons who love each other and not two people who have opposite genders. Marriage vows are promised by two people who love each other and are willing to be with their partner through better or worse; if two people with the same gender really feel that love and are willing to share their life with each other, why will some people stop them? It is like stopping love but then no one can stop love because love is indeed strong.

Second, “It doesn’t hurt society or anyone in particular.” These two innocent people loving one another who just want to make their love stronger by having their marriage ceremony do not hurt society or anyone in particular. For them being in love, being in a relationship and being married does not make people sick, does not bring flu and even kill people. The love they have should really have an effect on them, just them, the couple and not other people, so why care? People talk about this and make this their own problem. Somehow, people in a way are masochist thinking that there are many problems to think about like their own life, money or their own love life but instead of thinking solutions about their own problem, they still continue to create their own problem of arguing and thinking about these people (gay/lesbian) who want nothing but a peaceful life with one another.

Third, “Visitation rights for illness.” It is a fact that before a man and a woman gets married; the couple will go through some kind of a process regarding their health conditions or some tests to see if they are capable of producing healthy children. This process is needed to detect illnesses like AIDS, STD or some other more diseases that they can acquire during their single life, if ever they have. This is a long process and a not so healthy one because if these couple has neglected to take some health test and then for example, one of them has STD, then eventually, the partner will have the same illness without knowing earlier. And the STD population will increase and this is not healthy. However, if two people with the same sex have their rights to get married, the couple will not have any problems regarding their health status in terms of sexual interaction because there is no way that one of them can transmute the disease to the other. And there is a big possibility that the STD population has a probability not to increase that much.

Given some of the ‘for’ argument positions, there are also many arguments that are against Same Sex Marriage. One of which is the argument that says “Marriage is for raising children.” Children being raised by a father and a mother (man and women) grew up healthier physically, emotionally and spiritually. They will have the usual family background and will live a simple, normal and easy life. The children will have the opportunity to be cared and helped by his/her real mother. The child does not have any questions when s/he grows up because s/he has grown up normally together with the usual family type.

Though the latter argument is undeniably correct, there are also some true arguments against this. One given argument against the argument is “What makes the difference is the love of the parents; not their gender.” Raising up a child in a healthy way can’t be argued with when the topic is gender because one’s gender does not have any effect on the child. Not because the child’s parents is assumingly both men and women means that the child will not be raised normally. Having a healthy child raised is an issue of love and only love. It is never and never will be about gender.

This paper has stated the pros and cons of the issue about Same Sex Marriage. In summary, the following are some effective arguments that are ‘for’ or Pro Same Sex Marriage: Firstly, Marriage is a union between two people who love each other. Secondly, it doesn’t hurt society or anyone in particular. Thirdly is the argument about visitation rights for illness. Given these arguments, fairness should be stocked in the readers’ mind now. These people do not need others’ cruelty; do not need you to care.

In conclusion, Same Sex Marriage is healthy, won’t kill, won’t hurt, won’t make you sick, and won’t give people problem. It is not asking people to care, to give donations, and to pay tax. Everyone has his own rights, even bisexuals, even transgenders, even gays, even lesbians. They need acceptance, not cruelty, not discrimination.

Paliwanag nang mga Babae.

Kapag ngumiti ka na ng konti,
nag-ayos ng konti pagkakamalan ka nang malandi.
Hindi pangseryosohang relasyon.

Marinig lang nila na malakas kang mag-salita,
palengkera ka na.
T.O. kagad sa kanila iyon.

Mahilig silang tumingin sa mga babaeng sexy manamit,
kulang nalang makita na kaluluwa.
Pero kapag babaeng seryosohin at gustong ligawan
dapat disente,
dapat mala-anghel ang mukha,
dapat mukhang inosente.
Tapos kami pa raw ang mahilig mamili?
Parang baliktad yata?

Ok, ayan nanliligaw na si lalake.

Dapat pakipot ka para suyuin ka, para habulin ka pa lalo.
Kapag hindi ka naman nagpakipot.. "easy to get" naman ang tingin sa iyo.
Hindi ka na seseryosohin.
Teka! Sino bang may sabing magpaalila kayo,
di naman namin hawak ang buhay niyo.

Natural lang na magtiis kayo, may gusto kayo sa amin eh.
Kapag nakuha niyo na iyon wala na lahat ng mga paghihirap niyo,
babaliktad na ang sitwasyon kami naman ang mamromroblema.
Para lang kayong may gustong bilhin na bagay.
Upang mabili ito kailangan munang magsakripisyo, magtipid, magtiis.
Pag nabili na at mapagsawaan wala na, balewala na. Diyan ka na sa tabi-tabi.

"Tawagan nalang kita pag trip ko o kaya'y pag may gusto akong ipagawa sa iyo"

Ano pa ba? E di sinagot mo na diba. Utang na loob pa natin yun.
Dahil naghirap daw sila sa panliligaw dapat masuklian natin iyon ng higit pa.
Sa umpisa kailangan malambing ka, maayos at laging magsisilbi sa kanya.
Ayaw daw nilang humawak ng relasyon, pero kapag ikaw naman ang nagmando,
aba! masasakal naman.

Sasabihin pa sa iyo:
"demanding ka."

HAHA Smile)

Meron ka pang maririnig na:
"I think we need space.",

..........at kung anu-ano pang ek-ek.

Sino rin may sabing di dapat kami magpakabait,
maging devoted at faithful?

Kapag kami ang sumaway niyang mga iyan, iba na ang tingin sa amin.
Malandi na kami, haliparot, pakawala, makikay at kung anu-ano pang mga bansag ang itatawag sa amin.

Kapag kayo gumawa noon, ok lang.
Lalake kayo eh, macho kayo pag ginawa niyo yon.
Kaya kami, walang magawa. Magpapakaburo at magpapakamadre nalang.

Kapag nagloko na kayo ano pa bang magagawa namin?
Eh di iiyak nalang. Wala namang ibang magagawa eh.

Tungkol naman sa tinatawag niyong pagdedemand namin.

Hindi kami nagdedemand! Karapatan lang namin iyon.
Karapatan namin na lambingin niyo kami, icheck at ipakita sa amin na mahal niyo kami.
Ha. Ha. Ha. Smile)

Hindi rin ibig sabihin na mas sincere kayo sa amin.

Seryoso rin naman kami ah. At ang maturity wala yan sa edad.
Mas maaga nga kaming magmature sa inyo.
Ang isang 19 year old na lalake eh, isip 15 pa yun. It follows iyan sa lahat ng age group.
Mas mataas pa kung minsan ang pagbawas ng level of maturity.
Kayo na ang mag-math!
(Hahahaha!Benta!)

Pati yung pag-iyak namin pinupuntirya niyo.

Kesyo drama daw. Diba kapag umiyak ka nagbuhos ka ng emosyon diyan.
Ano tingin niyo sa amin mga artista?!

Alam niyo iyon? Yun bang kulang nalang ay lumuha ka na ng dugo,
pero hindi ka pa rin papansinin.
Sasabihan ka pang tigilan na ang pagdradrama.
Hindi nila kami maiintindihan kapag nagseselos kami.

Bakit naman kami magseselos kung wala kaming nakikita?
Mas iba kaming magmahal. Mas masarap..


Kapag natapos na ang lambingan,
eh di siyempre iwanan blues na.
Kami pa raw ang nagsawa, kami pa raw ang nagtritrip lang.
Sino ba ang lumalayas kapag may nakita nang bago,
sino ba ang mayabang,
sino ba ang nagmamalaki?
Kami ba? Kami ang walang choice...

Kasi ang babae pag sinabing "break na tayo.."
Lambingin lang iyan ng konti balikan blues na iyan.
Kapag ang lalake ang umayaw, pucha, bahala ka diyan.
Kahit mag-tambling ka pa sa harap niya. Wa-epek.
Umiyak ka ng bato.Wa-epek.
Tsk, tsk, tsk. Tapos sila pa raw ang kawawa?

Post-break up.

Mahal pa ng babae si lalaki.
Sasamantalahin ni lalaki. Magpapagawa ng kung anu-ano.

Naaalala ka lang kapag may kailangan sa iyo.


Kapag pumangit ka after the break up, magpapasalamat sila na iniwan ka nila.
Kapag gumanda ka naman, ipagkakalat nila sa buong sangkatauhan na naging girlfriend ka niya.
Sala sa init sala sa lamig talaga.


Ano ba namang buhay to?

Ang hirap ding maging babae ano. Kala nila laging sila nalang.

Lagi rin kaming naiiwan sa ere.
PUTANGINA SAKLAP DIBA?

Damdamin nang mga lalake.

*grabe. usapang lalake*
*sindi ng yosi*
*hithit*
*buga*


Musta na, pare?
Ako, okay lang.
Eto. Nagmumuni-muni. Nag-iisip.
Minsan talaga may mga bagay na hindi ko maintindihan.
Ewan ko ba.

*hinga ng malalim*

Bakit ba ganun pare,ilang beses ko na pinag-aralan pero lagi na lang lumalabas na parang kahit ‘sang anggulo mo tingnan,
hindi nagiging patas para sa mga lalake ang ilang bagay pagdating sa pagmamahal.

*tingin sa stars*


Minsan naiisip ko, alam kaya ng mga babae ang hirap ng lalake
na gumawa ng first move para magtapat ng pagmamahal?
E yung hirap na dinadaanan sa panliligaw at pagsuyo sa mahal nya?
Ang feeling ng masaktan pag nabasted?
Malamang-lamang siguro, hindi ano.
Wala naman yata silang alam sa mga paghihirap naten e.

Ang alam lang ata nila e
mamili, manakit, at magsaya.
Tingin mo?

*tingin sa malayo*

Lagi naman ganun. Una pa lang, lalake na ang naghihirap.
Hassle saten ang panliligaw pero bago pa yun,
kung ano pang diskarte ang gagawin naten
para masabi naten sa kanila na mahal natin sila.
Alam kaya nila yun? Mahirap magsabi na mahal mo na yung babae, diba?
Tapos liligawan pa naten.

Patutunayan na mahal nga sila.

Susuyuin..

to-the-max.

Maghahatid sa bahay, tutulungan,
sasabayan, palalamunin, pagtyatyagaan,
lahat na.

Kulang na lang e pagsilbihan mo nang
walang sahod. (Hahaha!)

At ano ang kapalit? Well, depende sa trip nila. Oo tol, sa trip lang nila.
Wala silang pake kesehodang mahal natin talaga sila.


Basta ang alam nila, pag di nila tayo trip,
isang malaking HINDE ang makukuha
naten,


kahit umiyak pa tayo ng dugo o lumuhod sa mga asing buu-buo.
Para lang silang namimili ng damit na di man lang sinusukat bago ayawan.
Kaya kahit mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal natin, sorry tayo.
Hindi nila alam kung mahal mo sila.
Kailangan mong maabot ang kanilang mga standards o uuwi ka lang na bad trip, iiling-iling, at minsan, luhaan.

Wala tayong magagawa, marami silang alibi.

“Hindi pa ‘ko ready eh..”,
“Sorry pero I think we should just be friends..”,
“Ha? Uhhmm.. nagpapatawa ka ba? Hahahaha..”
“Better luck next time na lang muna, okay lang?”,
“Give me a decade. Pag-iisipan ko muna..”,
"Para lang kitang kapatid eh.. "

yaddah yaddah.

Isang malaking pagsasaklob ng langit at lupa ‘yon para saten.

*kuha ng bote ng beer*
*lagok*
*lunok*


At hindi lang ‘yon tol. Sa pre-relationship stage pa lang yon.
Pag sinagot na nila tayo, satin pa rin ang hassle.

Tayo daw ang mga lalake kaya..
tayo ang hahawak ng relasyon.
Tayo ang aayos kung may gulo;
tayo ang dapat magpapakabait;
tayo ang magtatyaga;
tayo ang magiging devoted at faithful;
tayo, tayo tayo.

Sila? Ummm… Teka, isipin ko.

Ayun.

Sila ang magsasabi kung anong oras kayo dapat magmeet;
sila ang magtetext ng mga mushy at kabalbalang texts;
sila ang magdedemand sayo ng kung anu-ano;
sila ang magbabawal;
sila ang magsasabi kung kelan ka dapat mag-shave,
kung kelan ka pwedeng tumawag sa bahay nila,
kung kelan sila di dapat bad tripin dahil meron sila,
at kung kelan ka korni.

Ewan. Ganun ata talaga.

*kuha ng bote ng beer*
*lagok*
*lunok*



Hindi pa yun tapos pare, dahil dapat tayo ang bahala kung ano ang magiging takbo ng relasyon.

Pag maganda, edi okay.
Pag may problema, kasalanan naten.
Haay buhay. Minsan talaga kung tutuusin sakit sila ng ulo.
Kaya lang mahal naten kaya di na natin iniintindi yun.

*hinga ng malalim*

Pero alam mo tol, feeling ko mas sincere pa tayo magmahal sa kanila.
Alam mo yun, iba tayo magmahal e.
Hindi lang parang laru-laro lang. Seryoso.
At kung magmahal man tayo, lubus-lubusan.

Mas mature?
Hindi yung parang pambata lang gaya nila na kesyo magseselos-selos, iiyak-iyak, iina-inarte, dadradrama, at kung anu-ano pa.
Hindi lang kababawan. Ka-mushyhan. Kababaihan. Iba tayo pag nagmahal.

*hinga ng malalim*
*tingin sa malayo ulit*


At ito pa ang pinakamasaklap.

*singhot*

Ang ending ng relasyon.
Sa mga panahong ‘to, either
sawa na sila, hindi na tayo trip,
may nahanap na silang better saten,
o kaya they need f*cking space and time muna.
Bad trip no? Wala na naman tayong choice. Sila ang masusunod.

At ano pa ang kasamang hassle don?
Syempre wasak na ang imahe naten.
Tayo ang lalabas na may kasalanan.
Na playboy. Na nagpapaiyak.

*iiling*

Tayo siyempre ang mga antagonist
at sila yung mga bidang inaapi at parang mga pusang iiyak-iyak.

Ang ending:
mag-ooffer sila ng “friendship” kuno matapos tayong pagsawaan,
lahat ng gifts naten nasa kanila,
sawi tayo sa pag-ibig, “player” na ang image naten,
at higit sa lahat,
mag-iisip kung papaano ipagpapatuloy ang buhay.
Maiiwan tayong tulala, mag-iisip kung saan nagkamali, mamomroblema sa pag-aadjust sa pagiging single, at di na naman makakatulog.

Haay buhay. Ang hirap maging lalake.
Lagi ka na lang naiiwan sa ere.
Ano? Hindi ka na nagsalita? In-love ka no?

Ako, kamusta? Eto.
Yoyosi-yosi. Bubuntong-buntong hininga. Titingin-tingin sa bituin. Mumuni-muni. Lalagok ng alak

Ang mga babae talaga, oo

Bata, Bata pano ka ginawa (Reaction Paper)

-- Again, wala pong kwenta! HAHA

Bata, Bata paano ka ginawa?
During those times, it is a fact that the mere roles of our beloved mothers is to stay at house and take care of their children They don’t have the voice at their own house, they were not able to do things that they really want to do. They was just to stay in the four corners of the house which was really not right. But this stereotype role of women in the society was diversified in this movie. Lea Bustamante, a women who express things that comes into minds, who for for her family even though she is a woman, a mother, have 2 children namely Oggie and Maya.

Oggie and Maya treat each well though they have different father. Lea have a husband and have Oggie as the result of their love but they end up breaking up. After that, Lea has an affair with another man and has Maya as a result of their love. Oggie and Maya grew up open to the world, they do and express what they think is right. Oftentimes, they argue about who really their mother loves. Lea has so many problems with men, on her first husband, they broke up because she wants to be free, she don’t want that her life will be limited because she is not that type of women. On the second, they love each other but as time goes by, with the fact of Lea’s attitude, the man leaves her and found another.

At the near end of the story, there was a conflict that it has been up to the point that the two fathers of her children was near her, not only literary also emotionally. And there was a time when she can’t handle all the problems and suddenly she’s just being sick of being a mother and it seems that she has forgotten her roles of being a mother. Because of office works, her mind was mainly based on her work which makes the two men angry because she can’t handle work and family at the same time. They said that she must quit her job, but she doesn’t follow because she doesn’t want to be dictated on what she must do.

There was also an instance where in there was an accident that happened with her two child but she was at work so obviously she was not the first to know about it. When she came in to the hospital, the two fathers were waiting for her. She was accused of being careless of her children and that the children must be out of her hand because it will not do any good if the children are with her. She was so sick of all the problems and was then giving up.

Lea talks to her children about the decision that the children were about to make, if they will stay with their mother or go with their respective fathers. They was making things clear while the mother, on the other hand was thinking about what she will do, she have thought that a women can live without a man. And it is most important to children to grow up with their mother beside them. A mother can always understand but father seldom does. A mother mostly understands you because you came from her.

Suddenly, May and Oggie go back to their mother because they realize that even though their life wasn’t completely perfect, they know that life wouldn’t be perfect without it being incomplete. Meaning, life being imperfect makes it perfect. They also realize that no matter what happens, their mother will always and forever will be their mother.

Back then where females where not given so much importance, Maya was there, prove to people that Females and Men are just same and equal human being, There shouldn’t be things that are restricted only for men. Women should be free and has the freedom to do whatever they want. Women, without them, men are not complete.

Sociology.

--Sorry, walang maipost e. HAHA. Kahit wrong grammar, wag mo nalang basahin! Hehe :p

The trip on the Bilibid adventure was a blast. Of course, coming from a Catholic University, we can’t really deny the fact that some of us or somehow majority of us have the first time to have an encounter with a inmate inside the Bilibid in Muntinlupa. The activity in the Bilibid goes well as I have first pictured it in my mind. At first, I don’t have any idea how it will be and what will I do, but when you are already there, it seems that you are at home because they are not like other prisoners, they are not like the prisoners that we see on television. In fact, they can actually go out on their cell unlike other prisons in other Bilibid. The Bulibid in Munitinlupa , as I have understand, have the, Maximum Security, where in inmates who have big penalty of imprison or sentenced to death located and there is the Medium Security, where in if the inmates case in Maximum Security somehow decrease, they will be send to Medium Security. And of course there is other prisoners who will and can, for their attitude, go out of the jail there is the Minimum Security where inmates wear brown shirt and they can roam all over the Bilibid without any guard because they are really that safe, the guards trust them enough.

I, myself enjoyed the trip, I’ve learned to explore and I actually learned a lot. I’ve found out that I can socialize with some people that seem not so friendly at the television.

In the bilibid there is like their “clubhouse” where we stay the whole afternoon, the activity start and close with a prayer. It was actually fun because the inmates have the chance to show us their hidden talents, some sing, dance, jam and as return some students from the 6 sections have their own performances too. After the back to back jam of the students with the inmates, of course everyone is hungry so we, students bring out the packed lunch of us and our inmates. While eating, we have given a chance to have a one on one talk with a respective inmate. We have the chance to asks questions which naturally, they would answer.

The inmate that accidentally partnered with me originally comes from Mindanao, I definitely wondered why he is in jail in Muntinlupa and I have known that people who have big cases must be brought to big prisons like that in Muntinlupa. He first was put in the Maximum Security and was sentenced to be in jail forever but the case decrease or left behind so he was put into the Medium Security. He was in the Maximum Security for 10 years, and he said that the life there was really harsh compared with that in Medium Security. He said that in Maximum Security you cal surely see inmates hurting each other, the brutal way. Then he was put into Medium Security and was there for 1year and he can say that it was much more free life in there than that in Maximum Security. He also states that it the Medium Security, they have churches for Catholics, Born Again and all religions. He just keeps himself busy in their church instead of thinking about his beloved wife and four children, he also tell me that they have communication, through texts which cost 3pesos in there and call, which cost 30pesos per minute. How do they get the money? He said that he is having the privilege to have money sometimes weekly but sometimes none. Being a preacher in their church, they also preach their good news in other inmates; they are like teaching them that is why they are given some money for that.
In regards to those prisoners who have not yet finished with their studies, they can study in there of free. The University of Perpetual Help- Delta (Las Pinas) extension is there to help the students have the knowledge and they can finish their schooling so that their time will be useful. They have Elementary, High school, College education. With this education, they can go out of the jail, knowledgeable and can immediately work outside the prison.
Again, during the encounter with the inmates, they seem happy and glad that there are some people who care about them. We have to admit it; many prisoners are forgotten by their loved ones. Sadly, when they are there in the jail, eating foods that are not super cooked, with no tastes at all, fighting with other inmates, sleeping in a small cell with 70+ persons in it their loved one is out there, eating foods that are cooked well, can live peacefully with their children and can sleep well with the kids.
Worst case of being forgotten is that, when you still care and you still think that you’re someone out there is not shame that you are her lawfully wedded husband and that still waits for you, then suddenly ‘you’ are just the one who is thinking of it. In the other side, she has already forgotten you because it is her humiliation that you are her wife.

Harsh Reality but true, people absolutely do not want this to happen so how to prevent this, we must also prevent doing bad or unnecessary things that the government would hate us, we must stay only in His’ side, the Lord’s side and not on the other side. We must first realize what will be the consequences before we do things that we know that won’t help us at all. We must commit to things that won’t cause or bring us to danger. We must know who will be our friends and what will they bring to us. We must care about other people and not hurt them. We must love each other and not kill each other. We must realize that we are in one world, with only one father. So why kill one another, like brothers and sisters, we should learn and practice the four-letter-word instead. Love, love do makes the world go round. See, it is not hate; Killing is an effect of hating a person. Hate does not bring good to us creatures, it always not. So live and LET live. Love and just LET LOVE.

Nicole Besa(News Writing)

HIDI DIN EDITED, SORRY :)

Nicole Besa.

Maria Nicole “NIKI” Besa, a college freshman, accountancy student from the University of Santo Tomas suffered from what is commonly known as Hemorrhage or internal bleeding, which caused the young lady’s sudden death on January 16, 2009 at exactly 4:00am and was declared dead on arrival.

Nicole Besa, a thomasian, has a graceful and flexible body. She enhances it by doing more of what she got. She actively belonged to two of the dance troupe, one from her university and another outside the university.

In her case, the bleeding occurred inside her head when she did the headstand, a stunt for dancing, that’s the time that they were preparing for the University wide cheer dance competition, the Cheer Mania together with her dance group mates in her major.

The said practice was done on January 11, 2009 Sunday. It was the Preliminary exam week of the Accountancy students. The stunt was performed by Besa on the said practice. After the practice, Besa was able to go home peacefully but the day after, January 12, 2009 Monday, there was suppose to be a meeting for the YFC, a group outside the University that she’s actively belonged before, but she was not able to come. A friend of her, Christian Pangilinan, student from the same University, BS Psychology, has a sudden feeling of fear so he asks her. A text message from Besa says… “Sumasakit dibdib ko… Sobrang sakit n’ya, ayan nilagnat pa ‘ko.”

On January 13-14, 2009 Tuesday & Wednesday, Besa was confined at St. Luke’s Hospital. She was sent home by doctors because they said; they didn’t found anything that can hurt her on her body. Besa had gone back to normal but apparently, she feels the symptoms again, January 16, 2009, Friday, Besa was hurriedly brought to the nearest hospital, Philippine Hearts(somewhere in Katipunan) at 4:00am and was declared dead on arrival.

Many people were sorry for the 17 year old girl, Besa who have failed to have a chance to enjoy more of her life. “Hindi agad ako naniwala syempre parang ‘Benefit of the doubt’ nalang.” Christian Pangilinan said.

The autopsy came out and said that it was not because Besa done the stunt that she died. It was because she feels so much stress plus the fact that it was their exam week then maybe Besa’s body was shocked and wasn’t able to handle the pressure.

Basta Tomasino (News Writing)

HINDI PA EDITED, SORRY :))

BASTA TOMASINO…

Basta Tomasino, an online based wed campaign, project successfully done by the organization, TOMWEB, to mainly bridge the gap between all students in the University of Santo Tomas.

The University of Santo Tomas, composed of College of Science, College of Education, College of Architecture, College of Commerce, College of Nursing, Faculty of Civil Law, Faculty of Medicine and Surgery, Faculty of Pharmacy, Faculty of Arts and Letters, Faculty of Engineering, Conservatory of Music, College of Rehabilitation Sciences, College of Fine Arts and Design, College of Accountancy, Graduate School, Institution of Physical Education and Athletics, Institution of Religion, Institution of Hospitality and Management, UST High School, Elementary School. Many faculties, only one school but through the campus, unity can’t easily be determined.

One project campaigned by Tomweb, “BASTA TOMASINO…” was planned and done to mainly have the thomasian community be united as one, the project was planned on the summer of 2008 and finally materialized on October, 2008. Because it is a fact that currently, people are engage to the internet world, tomweb has come up to a project that will help thomasians see the unity between all the colleges at the same university.

Basta Tomasino is an open-ended statement that would be continued by giving an adjective next to it, adjectives that surely defines how or what a thomasian is.

“We aim to bridge the gap between all thomasians.” Sharlene Cunan, 3rd year, Journalism, President of TOMWEB states when asks about the aim of the said project.

Basta Tomasino… aims to unite all the colleges inside the university. “Kasi ang nangyayare, mas loyal tayo sa mga faculty naten.” Katrina Corpus, 4th year, Information Management says. Thomasians have to realize that we are in the same university, we are family, and we are all thomasians.
This campaign came up to something that will have to recognize Thomasian students, the advocacy band, the advocacy band is wear by thomasian students and by this, it is almost likely to say that ‘IM A PROUD THOMASIAN’.

With Nico Orillano as the web designer of the BASTA TOMASINO website, the site is starting to spread in the Thomasian Community, bringing the advocacy band all over the UST, having the students of the university proud and say to the world that ‘we will just bleed black and gold’, that they will always be thomasians at heart and that they can proudly say “Aba, USTe ako!” This campaign encourages Thomasian students to unite as ONE and be proud of the university, the University of Santo Tomas.

How MEDIA cultivates?

Nowadays, and ever before, Media totally has many effect on us. It changes something in our life, maybe not all. But still, there’s something. Media also serves as an entertainment to us. Why can I say these things? Because I am a living example of it, I’ve experienced changing, changing the aspects that have lived in my mind. It cultivates my mind; it put something in my mind that can’t easily erase.

Take for example, what we see on commercials that are shown in the television. Commercials are produced to entertain people to buy the product they produce. To buy something because it makes you beautiful and the likes, but by commercials, our mind was somehow affected and cultivated by media. Like in commercials of shampoo, soap, etc… Beautiful girls commonly called as models are paid to endorse their products. And usually, models that we commonly seen in the television are white in complexion have long hair and soft skin. When we see that aspect in a girl, we automatically think that the girl is beautiful, cause that are the commonly aspects of a model so that is what we think. With that as an example, we can say that media truly cultivate our minds.

Other example is this, why do we think we shake hands with those we had know? For example, we have just known a person, automatically, what we do is to shake hands with that person. Why? Because that is what we see, commonly in movies, we may see scenes like that, that a person shakes hand with a newly-met-person. That’s what we do, because that’s what media gives us that are an effect of how media cultivates us. Another example is when we see a lady who always wear make-up, wear expensive and signature dress we may think that the lady is vain, because that is what the media is usually trying to put in our mind. It is what media cultivates us.

And in movies, for example a slightly violent movie, when it is time for them to beat each other, the antagonist usually lost his power when it is battle time and at the same time the protagonist have his power. Irony isn’t it? But that is what media is always giving us, and at other movies, when two people beat each other, the protagonist usually win and at instance, the protagonist will just stand up and fought again and win this time.
These are just examples of the reality of how media affects us, of how media cultivates us. These are just very valid examples that media really has a great effect in our mind