“Love is undefinable.” He said when asked what for him is love but then he said “Ang love ay isang hindi ordinaryong pakiramdam na nararamdaman ng isang tao kapag siya ay nagmamahal.” He also said that love is overrated, in this generation because of the fact that people say that they are in love when in fact they are not.
But how can one really know if they are in love or they just love the idea of being in love? He said that once that you are in love, there is that certain feeling which is “kakaiba”. He said that you are in love when you cannot stop thinking of that certain person, you think of that person and make him or her your inspiration and never a distraction. He also said that you are in love when you can do things which you are not capable of doing before and that you are in love when you’ve started to feel pain.
But then how does he come up with his meaning of love? Renz has already been in a relationship four times now. But according to him, he is not considering the first two girls as his ex-girlfriends because of the fact he was not serious at that time.
“Kasi yung first two, wala lang yun e. Wala pa akong ka alam-alam (sa love) noon,” he said.
From play time relationships, he now experience the real ‘love’ thing due to his third girlfriend which he did, really did love. But then again, maybe fairytales don't really have a happy ending. The girl involve according to him suddenly stopped communicating with him for a week and then he found out that the girl was communicating with someone else. Then he broke up with her.
But upon experiencing his third girlfriend up to his’ fourth, he can say that his views on romantic relationships climbs up to the next level and become more mature. He started to think serious about love.
Being in a serious relationship for the first time, he understands now what love truly is and then therefore as for himself, he can say that he is not the ‘playboy’ kind of guy, that kind of guy who will jump into a relationship even if he do not feel anything for the certain person involved.
“Hindi ko naman kasi ugaling manakit ng tao e, mas okay na sa akin yung ako yung sasaktan kaysa sa ako iyung manakit,” he said.
His’ first and second relationship lasted for a week or less; third lasted for four months and the last lasted for three weeks. One cannot measure or prove one’s love based on the term of the relationship. Be it long term or for short only.
When asked if why does his’ relationships ended up in a break-up if relationships is important for him, he said: “Siguro kaya natatapos agad ang isang relasyon ay dahil may mga bagay na mag mabuting tapusin ng maaga kesa patagalin at pahabain ang sitwasyon,”
From serious relationship into experiencing long distance relationship, he said that it is really not easy to be involved in that kind of relationship. One should make sacrifices and everything for the sake of saving the relationship. Time and Communication, according to him is what long distance relationships is about. He said that these two, when gone, makes the relationship vanish too.
“So kapag papasok ka sa isang LDR, dapat siguuraduhin mo sa sarili mo na handa ka na talagang i-commit ang sarili mo sa mga bagay-bagay,” not just for long disntance relationship. This goes to all kinds of relationship, commitment."
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